A while ago I met this girl who's my age on a website and we started talking everyday. She's half way across the US. A while ago she sprung the word boyfriend while skyping. I liked it too much to much to reject the affection. We are almost completely alike , but she comes from a relatively racist family and they don't approve of her dating someone who's black and I'm not completely okay with dating someone from that kind of family I find it threatening frankly. I'm moving to that point where I really do love her and she loves me , but I don't like the idea dating someone I won't see or hold for years. Her mental state isn't the best and neither is mine , so i don't want to hurt her , but these thoughts won't change.
- wait for her to bring it upVote A
- Stay with her even though i have these thoughts because I actually do love herVote B
- Should I tell her we can't be a real couple even with her mental state. If so how.Vote C
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i honestly wouldn't mind it if i got to know him well enough online, but i wouldn't actually accept to be his girlfriend till he asked in person. harsh, i know, but I'm really not into the 'special moments online' thing. there r just some moments that need to happen in person.
that said tho, i dont think any man would love me enough to fly here or whatever.
i can understand the concern in ur situation. sometimes it's differences in family that could create an issue.
i respect that ur grounded in ur thoughts, but honestly all u can do is express this to her. u need to say u like contact. u stand stand being away for so long... having a relationship develop through a device, and a family that isn't accepting. it doesn't make u a bad guy. it just makes u a guy with a vision, and that's ok.0
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