Will you fight over your girlfriend/boyfriend?

I dated his cousin out of revenge and i didn't like him i just missed my ex a lot. now they are beefing hard. i mean i did what i thought would make me feel better. my ex was not okay with us talking

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my ex and i brokeup but im having difficulties because im missing him and he doesn't want his cousin talking to me. everybody has gotten in my ex and i business so communication is still shy. he is also using people. im having difficulty dealing with missing him. im just dogging him and leading him because I don't know how to deal with missing my ex. i got tired of my ex disrespecting me because he felt less of a man telling me his soft side. now im in this mess. my plan went wrong.

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  • Yes, your plan went wrong indeed. You really fucked up here.

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    • i couldnt handle missing him. his family n friends was starting up mess talking for us so just did what my heart thought would make it feel better.. now im confused and i been confused. i never even liked the cousin. i still dont

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    • You still is what with his cousin? You got yourself into a drama mess is what you got into. Stop lying to him. If people are in your business, then tell them to stay out or just don't socialize with those people.

    • exactly my brain gor myself in this omgg im so stupid

What Guys Said 6

  • I think I'd pretty much immediately sniff that out as you playing games, and that'd cause me to completely detach from the entire situation.

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  • Fuck no lol. That jealousy revenge shit worked on me in like 10th grade lol, not anymore. If a girl breaks up with me, whatever she does is her business, I don't give two shits about what she does.

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  • Nope... I would not.

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  • no i wouldn't... cause i wouldn't care about my ex... history... your mentaly sick by the way...

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  • Why would I fight over a woman that did something like that. I would never consider being with a woman that dated a family member of mine out of revenge. That is just sick. Nor could I ever respect the family member that went along with it. Even if I don't want they girl, it is incredibly disrespectful for a family member to date them.

    I am not trying to be hurtful, but you crossed a line that should never be crossed. Your best bet is to forget about this guy forever. You have burned your bridges already.

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    • its hard for me to handle missing him and people speaking for us. i was doing stuff that i thought would help me get over him but it ends up backfiring

  • maybe if i couldn't let go then yes, especially if it was a family member, that just like intentionally making it weird
    I mean to exaggerate, what if I dated you then broke up and dated ur sister.. so weird...

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What Girls Said 1

  • Sometimes the best revenge is to forget they even exist..

    I don't think what you did was ideal (maybe you were in the heat of the moment) it's something I definitely wouldn't do. To split up a family like that is not something I would think of doing. Best to forget and move on..

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