I ran into an old guy friend and he wants to get together. I can tell he's interested but I am just 1,000% not ready to date and I'm pretty sure that's where he's going with this.
What do I do? I don't mind getting together. I'm very good at being upfront and I will be when we catch up (out of a relationship, not ready to date anyone etc what I've been up to etc).
That's all I know to do. I really have not hung out with any guy ever outside of my previous relationship. I find this all so overwhelming. I'd almost declined because this is so hard for me.
Like- how do you just get together as friends? I just want friends right now in my life. Not a relationship. A once in a while friends getting together.
Please help me I'm clueless and really nervous and overwhelmed.
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Just hang out with him like you would with any other friend, and if he tries to make a move, specifically let him know that you're not interested. He'll likely get the hint and back off. If he doesn't, just stop hanging out with him, you can find better friends than that.0