If there is a girl you are absolutely dying for, you would do anything to get her, how much effort would you put into trying to win her heart?
Say you spend 3 hours a day thinking about strategies and ways you can attract her. You write down these strategies, think about what will be most effective, and then execute them as planned.
You are careful, cautious, methodical, and coordinated. You make sure you carefully flirt with her in a way that does not directly reveal your intentions, thus leaving the question "Should I go out with him?" ambiguous in her mind. You use carefully planned out jokes and humor that are rehearsed and timed perfectly. You are fanatical about your appearance, and put an extreme effort into looking as perfect as possible for the interaction.
You meditate beforehand to put you in the correct frame of mind, focused, calm, ready to go to work.
Am I losing it?
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Yes and no, define girl of ur dreams.. If it's that 1 girl U'll never ever find again.. It's a 50/50 but if the term "dream girl" a label of characteristics of a random girl then yes, u'll just have to encounter many of them..
Men can be successful when it comes to meeting the girl of their dreams, u just need the right experiences of failing and succeeding
Women are similar to men.. The intimidating factor works both ways when meeting someone new.. I just have to recognize it and use it to ur advantage
I help other friends and families on approaching men, it's true.. Be ur self.. But u need to add a mix to ur character (not lies or fake) but I'd rather call it adding excitement with confidence, which takes practice and experience to get used to when trying to get a chance with that girl..
However it's never going to be 100% success rate, some people are just not compatible, accept it and don't be bitter about it. Just need to move onto the next and find one that is compatible0