I understand that introverts (extreme) enjoy being alone and having that solidarity... However, when in a relationship, it is it normal to only talk to a person twice a week and see them maybe once or twice every two weeks? I don't know if I am just extremely needy as far as wanting to communicate with my boyfriend of six months or if he just really is zoning out and not realizing he doesn't talk to me often. I feel increasingly disconnected.
For someone who has ADHD and is an introvert, is it normal for them to be disconnected in a relationship?
I feel like he has total control over when we do or do not talk. If I text him, I don't look for a reply because nine times out of ten I don't get one. If I call, I don't expect a call back or even an answer because, again, nine times out of ten I don't get one.
Yet I am happy with him... I just feel disconnected.
Is this normal? Advice? Someone help me, lol, I am driving myself up a wall in thoughts.
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i dont have ADHD but i am extreme introvert. what your saying doesn't sound right. yes introverts get frustrated by other people, specially those who are always around them. they need space maybe once a week or twice at most. not the other way around... we just need one day out of the week with no one around to sit down and think where we are going.
you feel disconnected because you are disconnected... you have to find out why he is behaving like that. if you ask me id say he is just leading you on... but what do i know...2