I told my friend (lets call her Emily) that i liked a friend of hers (let's call her Ally) , Ally is good friends with Emily, so she says she'd talk to ally about it to get some kind of idea, But Ally doesn't date, s he's very sick, so her life in general is quite unpredictable, i knew that she was sick before hand, but the problem with this is, it doesn't really feel like enough of a rejection to me, i thought i had a chance with her, i really had high hopes for this, i'm really at a loss of how to react
and what do i do now? do i go on like normal? i used to invite her to any kind of get together that was happening, do i still do that? or would it be a bad idea now that she knows i like her?
should i wait a certain amount of time before i talk to her again? i really have no idea what to do now
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I agree with these other girls. Best way to find out for sure is talking to her directly, but that's difficult sometimes lol But especially do invite her to everything you would have before! First, like the other one said it'll show confidence but also that you do like hanging out with her as a friend too. Otherwise she might feel like you were Only hanging out and inviting her because you like her which isn't a good feeling either. And second, she might like you too but feels her illness might get in the way or cause issues that she's insecure about, and inviting her not only gives you guys more time to hang out but many chances to bring it up again :)0