Become friends first or make it clear from the beginning that you want more? Which do you think is a better approach? I'm not talking about becoming friends for years, but several weeks maybe a couple of months, to get to know each other better. Girls rarely agree to go out with a guy they just met (at least, when they're 18), so how do you make it clear that you want more? Just tell her that she is attractive when you first meet her, would that let her know?
I don't exactly look like a movie star, it's generally my personality that attracts girls, if that matters.
- Become friends firstVote A
- Make it clear from the beginningVote B
- Not sureVote C
Most Helpful Girl
If it was me I would want to know from the beginning if you were interested in forming a relationship other than friendship. If you didn't make it clear I would start seeing you as a friend after a few weeks. Drop subtle hints and let them know from the beginning that you're interested in them.0