I broke up w/ my ex bf 5 months ago (we dated for 10) and we recently just started texting again after randomly bumping into each other for the 3rd time. He got my # the 3rd time we've seen each other & started texting. He was hugging me and telling me he missed me during. I believe it was sincere.
NOW... it's clear that he has his eye on a certain female who I was a little suspicious on a little before I broke up with him. Long story short, I guess she played him and she started dating or talking to one of his friends. He's clearly hurt b/c he's basically been ranting on Twitter about her. He texts ME flirting. I don't want him back, I just want to be friends. But he dosent know that. I feel like he just talking to me to keep his mind of her. He only wants me b/c she dosent want him. What do you guys think?
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Based on what you said: I think that he just finds comfort in you because you guys had history. You're easy to talk to to him, so if anything he might see you as a safe person that will be there for him when this other girl isn't. He's just trying to make himself feel better. Don't waste your time being a backup.1