Guys... I have been on 5 dates with a guy everything seemed to be fantastic but this last week or so he has been distant. I texted him yesterday after 5 days of not talking and he replied back, asking me how I was and made conversation. Then he stopped half way through a conversation... I know your reading this and saying he's just not that into you.! But is it wrong to want a guy to be straight, I'd prefer him to turn around and say " I just wanna be friend" at least then I know one way or another. He and I are both in mid 20's... what is the best... mature way to handle this..? Can a girl just text a guy and saying " if you don't like me then just be honest".? kinda thing! its the not knowing that's frustrating!
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My advice when dating? Never put 'all' your eggs in one basket. You're in your mid-20's, it's OK to date other people. Maybe he ISN'T the ONE! I would not text him, or call him back. I would utilize this time date other people, take up a new hobby, or spend some time with some friends. If he calls, spend some time with him, ONLY if you have room in your schedule. Trust me, while you're sitting at home wondering why he hasn't called you, I doubt that he is home sulking, thinking about you. Dating is like the Stock Market. Things are boosting one moment, and then BOOM, everything goes downhill from there. No reason. No explanation! It could be a million reasons as to why he hasn't called you. But don't restrict yourself, analyzing why he hasn't. Life is short...there are plenty of men who will give you the time, if you're open to it.1