Maybe it's just personal experience, maybe it's impatience. But surely there comes a time when you can take so many rejections until you think, "Why do I bother? Why should I bother?"
After trying and trying and trying, I seem to have the same result - rejection. I'm 18 and feeling like I may never see a day where I don't get rejected. Sometimes I find liking someone pointless because I've been rejected so many times my mind just says she'll be another one that rejects you. Probably gonna get sh*t for saying that but that's how I feel.
I always get told you're 18, you're still young, you got plenty of time. Plenty of time for what? By the time I finish at college as I messed up my first two years, and finish uni I'll potentially be 24. By then I will have to go out in the world and make a living for myself, where is this apparent plenty of time? Studying is a pain in the ass, and what I want to do will require a lot of time and effort. Then I finish education I have to get a job, make money. I won't have time to go out as I'll be stuck working my ass of doing overtime to make sure I pay my rent or mortgage and utilities.
So I ask where do I have this time? Or do I happen to be the one guy out of 100 who drew the short straw with time.
I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm starting to believe some people are destined to live alone, myself included.
Having said that I feel really bad for wasting everyone's time, those who read the information part, those who answered I'm grateful but I apologise
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@shy_guy don't think that way. That made me sad, and it's not even me. I'm 17, so when I tell you you still have plenty of life to find a gal you know I'm not lying to you, or just saying it to say it. I'm single too, have been for a while, because I'm just waiting to find the right guy. Maybe you just need to wait for her to find you. You could be crossing the street one day and then WHAM! Girl of your dreams, and you just so happen to be the guy she's been waiting for. The world is strange like that. Just know that when you do get a girl, because I'm sure you will, you will love her intensely because you had to wait so long. Don't let it get you this down hun. Live in the present. As I tell you this, I also tell myself the same thing, your day will come.0