First off, I'd like to clarify that I am not in a relationship so I'm not cheating on her but there's this one girl I met off OkCupid who I had 4 dates with over the span of 3 months and we talk every now and then but I feel like it's going nowhere. She said she's been busy with her new job but basically I'm always the one reaching out to her and she makes no attempt to reach out to me. She will respond to my texts though.
I also saw her active on the dating site i met her off of more than she reaches out to me so I'm keeping my options open. Anyways, I message a girl today who turned out to be her sister. So an hour ago I asked the girl I'd been seeing what she's doing for new years and she said for new years tonight, she's going to her sisters that I messaged off okcupid earlier today and then said lollolol. Doesn't sound like she's pissed about it but I still don't know what to say back to her.
I've been meaning to ask the girl I've been seeing why she hasn't been texting me at all but I'm trying to do it in a way where it doesn't sound clingy or nagging and because this is through texting, it may not translate in the way I want to. On a side note, I've been having that issue a lot. I'll meet a girl off those sites and then after 2-4 dates, they flake and I never hear from them. It kinda worries me.
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I would leave her be. If she wanted to get to know you more she would have texted something. Then again I always wait for the guy to message first when texting just to see if he initiates at all. However if you have been texting a the time and she never does then just stop talking to her. If her sister asks anything about you guys or if you have feelings or whatever don't even message back give none of them the satisfaction..0