Does it matter to you? Especially the older you are or she is?
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I don't know how GUYS act, but personally, when I find out my SO is a virgin, it doesn't really matter so much to me, but I get a little bit turned off when I learn they're waiting. Because chances are, they're not going to engage in sex with me. I definitely respect their decision and everything, but I have a high sexual drive that I can't help, and it just kind of sucks when you can't experience sexual intimacy with someone you love. I mean, I still love them for who they are and everything but it just sucks a little bit if they're not open to it.0