I don't know if this theory is true but I think it's mainly a confidence thing because the assholes are usually the ones that have some sort of high self esteem problem that they can ask the girls they want out easily.
Guys who seem nice aren't always whipped easily they just have respect and manners and can stand up for their own right. Infact some like me, like being an asshole to the ones that are assholes who bullied people like me. I treat them like that when I know they are bullies and cowards in reality.
Some girls may believe that dating an asshole will give them security and protection and status but at what expense?
If I hit a guy who was being mean then am I wrong, because I'm the bigger asshole now even though the one being an asshole to me wasn't seen as one. Then all of a sudden I'm abusive.
So... when you girls say that you like Bad Boys. How are they bad exactly? From what I've observed the only kind that attracts girls are the ones that are mean to other people cause when they say bad boys I highly doubt it's just somebody that dyes his hair or rides a motorcycle.
Till they eventually find out what a coward that guy is because his *badboyness* is all image and there's no truth or virtuous personality behind that individual.
So tell me... What's attractive about a girl who enjoys somebody being mean to somebody else, cause i remember being laughed at by the girlfriends of my tormentors at highschool only because they wanted to impress their guys and I didn't think any of them were attractive.
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Women don't only date assholes, and if a woman does, it's probably because she's got her own self esteem issues, because you go after what you think you deserve. I wouldn't date an asshole, if a guy has to put someone else down to make himself feel better, he sure as hell won't get my attention because he needs to work on himself before a relationship.3