I'm 19, 20 in March. Yet I still have to ask my mom for permission for everything! How can I break free from this and show her I am completely capable of making my own choices. I have a boyfriend, I want to see as often as I can but she won't let me see him for at least 3x a week maybe less. She won't let me stay out past 10. How can I begin to approach this to her? I want to be able to make my own rules and judgements cause last time I checked it was me and my boyfriend. Not mom, me and boyfriend.
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You probably have to move out. If you live in her house, you would need to either:
1) move out
2) help pay the bills
3) do chores around the house
You must have done something before that makes seem rather you immature and that's why she requires you to get her permission. If you do any of the bottom three, you could sit down with her and ask why you need permission in a calm, civil and rational manner.0