I've been dating this girl for 6 months. I have to had intitate almost every date with her since we started going out. She has only asked me once to go out and once to come over for a family dinner during the holidays. Her mom has texted me more to come over then she has.
Just today I learned through a
Friend that she thinks "I'm way too nice "and that I say yes all the time and that she "wants me to be more mean to her"... First off that sounds ridiculous when I see it typed again. I'll be first to admit that I am super nice in the sense where I don't like confrontation too much, I wanna please my girlfriend and know they are happy especially since her previous boyfriend broke her heart. I wanna be there for her for anything that happens so yes I'm that guy.
My question is.. How can I be too nice and say yes all the time when she hasn't made a decision or wanted to hangout more than twice. I plan every date, every where we go, what days we see each other are all initiated by me. Maybe I do compliment her too much and no we haven't argued a lot cause to me there really hasn't been a reason. I know our feelings for eachother aren't equal and learning of this today proved it too.
I'm just curious as to why the way I am is so bad and frowned upon?
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I personally don't see the issue, maybe she's just weird. But don't change yourself, you seem really nice and thoughtful. I'd just talk to her, and bring i up. I mean you're putting way more effort into this relationship than she is, and it's been 6 months! If it were me, i'd have said something or called it quits.. but only because i'm impatient lol1