So I met this guy a few days ago online, we ended up hitting it off and texting a lot the first night, then talking on the phone for three hours straight about so many things. We pretty much just decided to meet and I told him New Years Eve I would be free, we ended up hanging out that afternoon, but only for like an hour since I had plans with my friends. He was a perfect gentlemen, opened every door, gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek, he asked when we could hang out again, we both were really liking each other. So yesterday, I was trying to get in touch with him to make plans for today, he ended up not texting me until 11 that night. So today, I was waiting on him to text me to confirm the plans, he didn't text so I called him around 2 to ask about hanging out, he told me yes and that he'd love to, he just had to handle some things with his phone first (it's broken and he's using an old one) but it's pretty much 12 now and I haven't heard from him. I'm confused because I'm sure he likes me, and so do I. I'm just confused as to why he's so flaky sometimes
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Opening doors? He's most likely a nice guy. If he's a nice guy, most likely that he's shy.
My guess is that he's nervous that he doesn't know to what to say. So don't let the duration deter you. Read more on what he says. "Phone thing" most likely "BS"
I, being a shy guy as well, say, you should speed up the process now, before all this nervousness builds up in him. Alternatively, it's 6 months or so of this, before he gets comfortable.