Hello, i'm 19 years old and about a month ago i've met a girl, we spoke A LOT over texto, she even gave me her number first. We texted a lot, she we're really interested, every text i sent her, she had her phone already opened waiting for me reply, everytime. Then i showed a picture of her to my sister, and they are actually friend but not that close, my sister told me she usually don't reply right away to text but she always did to me. She was so cute over texto, when i told her i was working nightshift, she said *so i'm going to sleep alone ): ?* She told me that twice, she was so cute.
Then i ended up inviting her to a classy restaurent, she accepted and she didn't want me to pay for the restaurent, i said it was fine. She really liked me, she told me about 4 times she was excited to meet me. The part that i knew she was the right one, is when she said *don't expect anything, i'm just a normal girl* i just fell, this was just too cute.
Then we ended up meeting at the restaurent, she was beauthiful, she was a princess, then we sat at the table and i started talking, her eyes and smile we're perfect, just perfect... i was really nervous, i was shy but i was keeping the conversasion up, i didn't make her laugh that much, i was asking her A LOT of questions, because i didn't know what to talk about. I asked her twice if we would see eachother again, she said probably yes, with a cute smile. Then when she left, we got outside and she called her mom to pick her up, i asked her if she wanted to go to cinema one day, she said yes, i will text you. Then her mom arrived and i was on the phone LIKE AN IDIOT, she left and she stayed next to me about 5 seconds, i'm sure she was waiting for a hug or maybe a kiss? nope, i didn't do any of that, i just said bye :)
I then texted her i enjoyed the diner, and she said me too but i don't think it will go further, we can stay friends still? :)
I have no idea what i did wrong... Should i text her again? help T_T
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Honey, you are so overthinking this. All of it. You like this girl so much, I understand, you were so nervous you wanted everything to be perfect. I see absolutely nothing wrong with what you did during the date. You were nice to her, offered to pay, and keep the convo up. Pretty good for a first date!
Dont call and apologize. That makes you sort of look like you have no confidence in yourself or the date.
give her a few days. Then call her and ask her in a really confident voice to go on another date. You can do it.0
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