Hey guys, there is this girl that since she moved to my city I been obsessed with her, I can't stop thinking about her at all for the past 8 months, everytime I see her I freeze and get shy. I believe I'm not her type. What can I do to get rid of these feelings? I don't know if it's a crush but I'm really hurt and it's depressing knowing that I'm probably never going to get close to her
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Hey! I'm a 16 year old girl and hopefully my advice helps.
Since you don't know her, or know her personality, what you're feeling is probably lust (you think she's hot etc..)
I say just ask her to do something casual with you (like get ice cream or see each other at a party). We aren't usually mean people (girls). The worst she could do is kindly decline, in which case at least you tried.
A guy who I was friends with asked me out once, and I didn't like him in that way. He brought flowers and chocolate to my house, but I had to say no. I hugged him, and told him he was a really nice guy and that I was really flattered, but I only see him as a friend. It was awkward between us for a few weeks, but we are now friends again.
I promise you she won't be mean. We aren't as scary as we look haha. I think most guys have this crazy vision that if a girl doesn't like him back, she'll laugh at him, and make him feel humiliated-but that just isn't true.. :) Ask her or you'll never know.
I'm in the same situation by the way.. I really like this guy but he doesn't know I even exist. I think about him all the damn time. I feel you... just be nice and maybe compliment her (you have nice eyes, a nice smile etc..)
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