I'll put this in dating because they've asked me out.
I went to my 10 year HS reunion in November. I used to dress very hippie like in highschool but pretty makeup, DEFINITELY funky though. Like my clothes were unusual to say the least. But showed off my figure. I just looked different.
Now I have natural looking hair and makeup and dress in high fashion.
These guys that didn't really give me the time of day were complimenting my looks. I understood at first, until we stayed in touch after and I continued to get comments and then I'm being asked out on dates!!
I feel like it is too superficial. Like what about what's inside my brain? What if I was just an older version of my former self? Would they care to get to know me?
I always attracted guys in HS but I know my style wasn't everyone's cup of tea.
Im not sure I want to continue getting too much closer to people so focused on my looks. But I'm not sure if now I'm just being the silly one. What do you think?
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Actually the very first time that attraction happens is generally related to the looks. So, I don't think it's bad to start something from this point. What cannot happen is that it continues being only looks. As I said, I don't see any problem with starting with looks and then going to something deeper from this point, or not.0