So when we hangout and we don't get alone time between the two of us, he says the day sucks and he goes into a bad mood.
But when we go to his house, cuddle watch movies together and start touching each other, it's one of those amazing days to him.
Im starting to feel like he only wants to get me alone, he never likes spending time with my family or his but he does it anyways to make me happy then complains that we never have enough alone time and gets into a bad attitude, giving me the silent treatments sometimes.
I feel like if there's never any sensual touching, he gets into this bad mood. I want to be able to be with him and not feel like he only wants me for the touching. I'm a virgin and I feel like he's doing all this just to get me into bed. Then when I try to explain something similar to what I'm explaining now, he makes me feel guilty and he gives me silent treatment for speaking my feelings. It's hurting me.
Should I tell him how I feel or would it hurt him? How do I even bring this up?
Why does he do this?
Should I call him out on his shit?
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I don't think it necessarily means he's just trying to get to sex as quickly as possible, I think it's quite understandable that he might want to spend time with just you. Being silent towards you isn't constructive though, I think he needs to communicate better to you regarding this, but I think it's quite understandable wanting to be with you (and no one else) and while he probably does want to have sex (at some stage anyway) he probably does enjoy touching in itself.0