Other guys are like this and can get a girl how come I can't.
What to do if your fat and ugly?
What Girls Said 9
If you feel that way, try to get a nice haircut (look online/ask hair dresser), pick the hair between your eyebrows if needed, remove hair on upperbody front and back (if there are any), get some new clothes (it doesn't cost a lot with a white tshirt and on most people it looks really good whith that and a pair of blue jeans).
also try to hit the gym a couple of times a week or do some sport you like. these little things can make a not so verry attractive guy attractive.
Google and YouTube how to turn your fat into muscles (incl. what to eat). remember losing weight/building muscles are not just something to do to look better, it's good for your HEALTH :)0
As long as you are comfortable in your own body, you'll get somewhere... If you are fat and ugly and not satisfied, then lose weight, as ugly you can only change if you have a lot of money for surgeries, and even then, you could possibly end up looking worse... so if you're not happy the way you are, losing weight is the best way to go. And yes, having a decent body will make you more confident in life in general, even if you are ugly. Good confidence, charisma, and a charming personality can make any ugly person very attractive!0
Lose weight ina methodical way.0
Lose weight, because then you're only ugly.1
Ugly is an opinion and therefore is different for each individual. So although you may think you are ugly in another persons eyes you could be beautiful (or if that isn't quite the word, handsome). For being fat you could work out just a little each day and add more work the next day in your workout. If it isn't a exercise problem it could be a diet problem, find this stupid, but my mom took wheat out of her diet and she dropped quite a few pounds. Sleep + stress: also could be a cause to gain weight, if you don't get enough sleep or have too much stress you could gain weight. :) Hope that helped some.0
You have serious self esteem issues. The questions you post all reveal the same theme ; Am I not good looking enough and why can't I get a girlfriend. You'd be wise to seek out a therapist to help you u derstanding why your self esteem is so low.
The answer to your question - you eat right and exercise, and beauty is subjective.2
What Guys Said 20
You got to gym beprettyfit.files.wordpress.com/.../...be-ugly.jpg I had to :D9
You keep comparing yourself to other and complaining about superficial things. The reason heavier people can get a girl and you can't os because they realize its not all about looks, its about the person you are that's what they work on, you keep asking the same questions and many people have given you the same answers, you need to work on your self confidence before you even think about approching a girl, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results, you continually ask these questions expecting a magical answer, you aren't going to progress unless you change your negative self image, build confidence, build self esteem, and stop seeing the world so superficially, stop using your handicaps as an excuse, stop focusing on the negative aspects in life see the good embrace it and build from there.1
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"Ugly" is a really subjective term per person. If you're fat just go to the gym.0
Fat? Join gym.
Ugly? Build great personality/status/achievements and they'll cover your ugliness.0
About being ugly there's nothing to do, about being fat there are many things that can be done. However, I just think you're currently being unlucky and they're being lucky.0
To stop being fat, try exercising and eating healthier food. But do it because it’s fun and it’s good for your health. Not because, girls might like it. Do it for you. Otherwise, you will get bored of exercising. Being ugly or handsome is relative. Some girls might find you cute and charming without you knowing it. While, for others, you just might be their cup of tea. Like everything in life, you can’t please everyone. But here is where you biggest problem lies: “Other guys are like this and can get a girl how come I can't.” You lack confidence in yourself. Before you can expect someone to like you, first you have to like yourself man. Women love men that are confident (but are not arrogant douches) and that can make them feel safe. Stop pushing yourself down and just be you.0
simple lose weight and be ugly ^^0
Because you probably have an unappealing personality.
Fat and ugly people that get girls do so because their personality attracts them.0
Pump steroids. Last resort.0
Well, workout and beauty is subjective.
Also, confidence! Very attractive trait1
Attention troll. Probably because your attitude sucks0
Eat like a swine is what ones does when they are fat and ugly.
I already am fat, but lots of people call me cute for some reason, I don't know. :\0
If you're fat, it's your fault.
just workout it has many advantages0
Because. You. Sit. On. Here. And. Constantly. Ask. Questions. Instead. Of. Getting. Out. And. Reacting.
Seriously dude, you've got to step out of the comfort zone if you hope to make any progress. If you let this fear nonsense control you, you're just going to keep sitting at home and wondering why girls aren't flocking to your OKC profile like mad. You have to get up, get out, and make things happen. The world isn't going to just toss someone at you.
And I know you've asked questions before where you seriously overanalyze the smallest of details... that's not the way to go about it either. It comes down more to you, than it does learning what to say to people. You need to learn to be comfortable, calm yourself and your mind down, so that you can use your brain to have a natural conversation with someone. It's the same as if you're talking to your friends- you're not anxious and trying to say all the right things to them. You're just talking to them and responding dynamically to the conversation. You need to learn how to carry that with you when you're talking to a girl, because it's no different at all.
BUT YOU HAVE TO ACTUALLY DO IT, AND NOT JUST THINK ABOUT IT IN YOUR HEAD. Positive pep-talk in the mirror is for the birds. You can read a book or talk to your buddies about training for war... or you can just fucking train for war. Which one do you think makes more sense?1
Dude, it's the Asperger's don't beat yourself up over other people's circumstances. Fat and/or ugly guys can get women, and many do, they win women over with their personalities or some shit.
This may not be the best place for you to seek advice on such matters...0
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