So there's this girl thats likes me who is a little on the chubby side, i like her, but I'm not sure i want to date her. Yet at the same time I do. I'm not sure if its because I like her for who she is, or if I'm just a bit desperate to get a girlfriend. Another concern is that if we get together and it doesn't end up working out I wouldn't want her feelings to be hurt. Any thoughts or comments?
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To be completely honest, don't date her. Fo her sake. You sound like you're wishy washy about this and don't really wanna date her. " . . or I'm just a bit desperate to get a girlfriend." So you recognize it may not even be her, it may just cuz you want a girlfriend. This would be so terrible for her to find out. Just like "You don't go to the grocery store on an empty stomach".
I'm not sure why her being a bit chubby has to do with it? You kinda make it sound like you just are ashamed to be ridiculed for it.
Regardless, I say you do not date her. You don't sound to sure or willing as is. She deserves someone who truly wants her. And you also deserve to be with someone you truly want or not let negative peer pressure from getting to you and preventing you from being with you want.0