I'm short... very short, 5'2 actually. Unfair as it is we all know I don't really stand a chance with most women. I'm told to just be yourself, be comfortable, have confidence, its not about the looks, try to do eye contact, listen to them while they speak, and ask questions about the girl. Well I do that. I'm also nice and funny from what I'm told.
I'm 31 now and I've only had one girlfriend, but do to the military we split (long story). I'm also told I should wait and the right person will come to me. Sounds nice but what if the right person was told the same thing to wait. Then nobody will be coming.
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If you had a girlfriend before, then you can get one again.
Whoever told you to "wait and the right person will come" was either wrong, or perhaps just worded it a little poorly. If you sit and do nothing, then of course you'll be getting nowhere. If you want to find someone, you gotta put some effort in, jeez.1