I've been dating this guy from work for a few weeks now and I finally had the guts to ask if he has a gf and said that he does but he really likes me more than a friend. It started one day when I was getting off work and he came running behind me and hands me a piece of paper with his name on it and tells me to text him. So, two weeks passes by where we've been exchanging text messages. He asks me to go out for a drink and things kinda got sensual and he was all over me to a point that he didn't want me to go home and suggested we go to a hotel because he wanted to stay with me and cuddle. But I told him that I got to go home. So, the next morning we exchanged messages again and how he had a nice time with me the previous night and that he had wished that we stayed together that night. every time I ask him if we can chill at his place he always has excuses that was so unbelievable like he didn't want me to go over at his place cuz it's messy. So, I came to a point that I texted him if he was single, married or has a girlfriend. And he replied back with honesty and he said he does but he really really likes me as more than a friend. And said that he was confused with his life. And I told him that I don't blame him for having a gf and I thanked him for being honest with me. Then, I text him and he doesn't reply back. What do I do? Should I cut him off and move on or we should continue dating and seeing each other behind his gf's back. But I can't stand being his side chick cuz I feel and thinking I deserve better than that.
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Don't date him anymore and cut off contact with him.
Even IF he's telling you the truth and he gets butterflies, adores you, etc., is this really the kind of guy you want to build a relationship with?0