The first time I met this guy in my class I thought he was cute but didn't pay any attention to him because he is 4 years younger and, I thought, a bit out of my league, and not a very smart move to start something with a guy from my class.
Since a few weeks he's been flirting a bit, mostly online but now in the classroom as well.
"Fun" fact is, I'm afraid I'm starting to fall for him.
My friends are talking about it, his friends probably notice it too, his behaviour towards me.
I thought I just liked the attention but now when he leaves without saying goodbye, I'm annoyed and sometimes even a bit jealous.
I'm not the best at flirting so it's not that easy for me to make him notice I'm kinda into him too...
If you have any advice or something, that would be great :-)
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There are no guarantees but death and taxes in life, sweetie, and this is no exception to my Rule of Thumb... however, with you beginning your beguine with "I'm afraid I'm starting to fall for him,' this could lead to a problem where your heart will be the one who suffers in the end, so stop and take things easy right now.
Work hard on being strong and Not wear your heart on your sleeve, although easier said than done, I know. You have this First date with him, but you are Not sure at all what his intentions of wanting a Real relationship is so just go slow with the flow so there can be More in store and a possible----Second date.
If anything goes South, if somewhere down the road you both want different things here, dear, agree to be friends, end it in a friendly like manner, being you have to see one another in Class every day.
This is just one of those times you have to play Russian Roulette but keep in mind when it comes to your own heart that is this wheel that needs protection, so keep your guard up and understand what the odds are that you could get hurt if it stops with the wrong hands at the wheel.
Good luck. xx1