I determined that I don't have enough social intelligence to provide an edge, humor, etc to keep girls attracted and entertained for long. Only good at being just friends. I'm just a tech savvy geek/nerd whos more serious rather than humorous. If the alpha/beta theory is right, trying to date one would violate the laws of nature anyway, right? Don't get me wrong, I actually enjoy single life.
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Do what you want but there are a lot of women your age looking for a good, stable guy. If you can be that, you are set. The teenagers and early 20s, who make up a lot of this site, are fixated on "alpha" or "confident" and I have to laugh because most of those guys end up as average performers at best after 10-20 years. Bruce Springsteen had a song called "Glory Days" that was probably written about these types. I was not who they would have been looking for early on but I ate those other guys for lunch in the business world. All flash no bang... The fun guy at the Christmas party but not the guy with the seat at the table. Dont worry about those guys.0