so personality really doesn't metter. there was this post on the internet and the guy said he dated a girl because she had a perfect personality but he wasn't sexually attracted to her and when he got fit and hot he fucked his girlfriend's best friend that was hot as fuck... guess i have no chance with guys.. i feel so bad that i am not sexually attractive especially to guys my age :/ should i never date? my personality would never be enough and my looks are meh. reddit said my body was only a 6/10 which is bad :( fitness for me is really hard cause of my knees so i guess i am lost...
looks have always mettered no metter what people say. beautiful women always get what they want. ugly women don't. some of us are just born unlucky.
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Personality definitely does matter. It's true that looks/appearance is what develops initial attraction but looks don't last forever. Personality is what makes people stay together long-term. Ideally, there should be a physical attraction as well as a mental attraction in order to have a healthy, long lasting relationship.
That one post you read should not stop you from dating. You sound like you just have a low self-esteem. You look great but me simply telling you that probably won't change how you feel about yourself. If you feel that you are not that physically attractive then try changing things up a bit. Style your hair differently, dress differently, find ways to work out that won't hurt your knees too bad, there ARE things you can do.
You shouldn't rely on other people to make you feel better about yourself. Take the initiative to do things that will help yourself because true confidence comes from within.0