there's this girl i like. we started talking in the beginning of November. she's recently divorced (22, two months married, five years of a serious relationship) and she was cheated on which led to the divorce. anyway, she had shown interest from the start... wanting to set up a date and whatnot. I did, but she flaked on me twice. first time she said she had a baby shower she forgot about and then the second time she said that it had a date vibe and wasn't ready to go out just the two of us. when I thought I had made her mad, she said that I didn't in the slightest and that she wanted to make sure I knew that she wasn't interested in pursuing anything right now. thing was she was snapchatting me every day but after she flaked the second time she stopped talking to me. she sent me a snapchat on Thanksgiving and I sent her a couple texts here and there and they got responses but still the convios were short and vague. I swore to myself that the last text I sent to her was going to be the last for awhile. I texted her on Christmas, which she texted back in no time. I just said Merry Christmas... and that was it. I performed the life check text to initiate contact, with success, the other night. We updated each other on our lives and I eventually ask her what she's doing for tonight, She runs down her day but says she's not sure after church. I ask her if she wants to do something, to which she replies that she is unsure. She's unsure because I told a couple of her friends I wanted to date her (obviously a dumb move), and that she isn't ready for that yet probably not for quite awhile. She said it would be weird to go if I still felt that way. I told her that I just wanted to be friends for now like before. She then agreed to go out to Chilis as friends. My question is, does she see potential in me as a future boyfriend?
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Honestly I think she does, it might be that's she is feeling pressured. It's good
you took the initiative to approach her in a friend zone way, continue your friendship, don't EVER push it or make her feel uncomfortable. Like I told
You I think she does like
You, so just be patient whenever she is
Ready you will notice a difference in her approach towards you :)
Best of luck! :)1