Last night after smoking and drinking with a friend things got a little out of hand when we kissed but I pulled back. We were both out of our own heads and he kept pursuing me and while I wanted to leave I couldn't drive no where. I sat in my car for some time and hoped i would come down from my high and that I could go home but I couldnt... It took a long time.
Nothing but two kisses happened but now I don't know if i should tell my bf. I don't plan on ever seeing my friend again. (I guess we aren't really friends in the end) I want to continue my relationship and pretend like yesterday never happened. Is that possible?
Please no rude advice... I feel terrible as is.
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Let sleeping dogs lie here, dear, do Not yap up a word to your soul mate. You will end up barking up the wrong tree with This that was Only a Kiss or two, Nothing More, Nothing less.
I realize the guilt is most likely eating you up alive inside but try and put it behind you and be thankful it didn't go any further than it did. You made a mistake, no one is perfect so don't make yourself punished by putting yourself in the dog house.
However, you need to set the record straight with 'The guy from last nite' who with his own 'Apology,' which could lead you down a problem path of More in store, should he decide to Continue trying to tighten the reins some by Talking you into a little 'Fun not under the sun' again. Tell him, should it happen to be brought up, that you don't want to be this party hound with him again, you have your bf, whom you don't want to cheat on again, and from now on, you are walking a very short leash.
Good luck. xx1