In my previous question I had asked if large but sagging boobs are a turn off. Also, I have lost a lot of weight and the sagging was a result of that and weight loss.
My boyfriend wants me to get surgery done. Is this reasonable and should I expect this from whoever I date?
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Maybe I'm a raging feminist for saying this --- but you should NEVER have to alter what you look like for someone else, unless YOU want to for yourself. If you are happy the way you are, or don't think it's that much of an issue, then don't waste the money on surgery! Splurge instead on something nice for yourself, or something meaningful that will make a difference to someone's life. Every girl's boobs will eventually sag - it's only a matter of when (and think about it... after you have children, not a lot of people can retain the same nubile body shape of their teenage years).
In an ideal world, the right guy will love you for who you are, not what you look like... unfortunately the world we live in is far from ideal --- and I know how important it is to us girls' self-esteem to be attractive to the opposite sex. It is totally understandable if you decide to go with surgery, but I, personally, would recommend against it if it's just to make your boyfriend happy. Would you do it just for yourself? Would it make you happy if your boyfriend wasn't a factor? It's the principle of the matter. ^_^ Just some food for thought.0