I dated a guy a few years back. I found out he was a total douche, writing his friend talking about what him and I did sexually and what he rated me, so I confronted him, and that was the last time I saw him. A few months back he wrote me on a dating site trying to hook up which I wasn't interested in. Then he pulled his old douchebag ways and said that he had a girl to screw anyways so it wasn't a big loss. As it turns out, he was newly married at the time he wrote me. So my question is, should I anonymously tell this girl to watch her man? Or should I mind my own business? He is one of those DJ types who travel and I'm sure bangs a lot of chicks. I feel sorry for her, but should I just keep my nose out of it? What would you do? It's pretty evident he hasn't changed his ways in the last six years.
- Yes, tell her. Karma is a B****50% (4)57% (4)53% (8)Vote
- No, don't say anything and let her find out on her own.50% (4)43% (3)47% (7)Vote
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I believe you should tell her, No woman should ever have to endure the pain and abuse this scum bag guy is inflicting on her even if she is currently blissfully unaware of it But make sure you have verifiable proof of his transgressions as I'm sure this guy has already made his wife feel worthless and thus she may feel lonely or afraid to get out of the relationship in which she will ignore the warning signs most likely unless she has that undeniable proof. Even then she may ignore it but at least you tried your best. These guys are the jerks that give us good guys whom think the world of women a bad name for all men and put a sour taste in womens mouths about men.
-----Married 4+ years to a beautiful woman 2nd marraige1