Well my boyfriend doesn't have the best confidence in the world. He works on it though and we haven't fought about anything having to do with it.
But I'm the naturally flirtatious type (or, "flirtatious", where I tease or joke about more intimate things) with other people. I don't mean it in a flirtatious way at all and I'm not testing the waters. When I'm actually flirting with someone, it's always awkward haha so I'm surprised someone so sweet is actually dating me!
But one time i hurt his feelings because we got together with a group of friends and I was the only girl and I did this behavior. I could tell he was upset but thing is, I didn't realize why. A few weeks later he tells me the full truth why he was upset and it was because I was apparently flirting with other boys, and treating him like just part of the group. I explained that I wasn't flirting but he still didn't like my certain behavior towards the other guys and I can understand.
How can I fix this? I treat all my friends, male and female like this, but I understand why my boyfriend wouldn't like it and it's not that big of a deal for me to change as he has already changed a lot for me.
And what did he mean that I treated him like part of the group? I was just trying to give everyone equal attention. Should I be closer to him when out with a group?
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Yes, you should stay closer to him, tell him that even though you act like this in front of everyone he holds the height place deep in your heart and add some cheesy lines they work miracle during time like this and don't give him falls promises like you won't flirt... cause you simply can't get rid of the habit and don't treat everyone equally he is your boyfriend and they're your friends thin line between.0
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