So, I have a friend with benefits, but I don't feel like is "filling" me. So, I wanna move on, and have "fun", meet other people, see what happens, but I have a rough past emotionally talking. The thing is, I don't know how this will affect me, if it's healthy. By the way, if you hadn't read any of my other questions, I don't have many friends right now, because I left a religion not so long ago, and if I wanna hook up I have to look somewhere else, and the people that hang out with me that are outside are few... So my only alternative is online dating.
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Just find another guy, online, in person, whatever, get the friends with benefits relationship established with the new guy, of he is a great lay and satisfies you, and you want to, then just have sex with the original less and less. Talk about the new guy quite a bit and the old one will get the message, hopefully he will be cool and still be your friend if that is what you want. If not and he gets pissed then just dump him, who needs drama? If it were me, I'd probably just maintain both relationships. Heck it's not like you are really dating, as in boyfriend /girlfriend exclusive anyway. You are just friends who satisfy each other's needs occasionally. Just be cool about ot, don't be a bitch, break it to him was and over time if you think it will hurt him.0