My friend is dating a great girl and he said that he's had bad experiences with women in the past and he's a brick wall of emotions and he's dating someone but can't fully get into it? does it mean he's protecting himself emotionally? or he doesn't like the girl? cause he told me. he rrally likes the girl so im confused.
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He's protecting himself emotionally. He's probably had a terrible experience with girls playing games and/or betraying his trust in human decency.
I feel him. This one girl has literally played games with me for over a month and I've become numb. Not sure if her friends are feeding her heaping spoons of bullshit on "playing hard to get" or she's just that bad at communicating. She still confronts me out of nowhere and pulls me in, but I'm skeptical, and noticeably less enthusastic about her after what she has done with my emotions.
The attraction still exists when guys feel this way. The girl just has a lot to prove so his walls come down.1