I've been seeing a guy for 6 months but he's moving for graduate school in another country. When we started dating we agreed that we would see each other up till the time he leaves. We didn't expect to fall in love, but we did. He moved, we kept to our deal but he hasn't texted me once since he left. No contact, nothing. The last time I saw him was at the airport and he texted right before take off. Then nothing. Why wouldn't he text? Tell me he landed? I know he's been texting his family, his sister mentioned it. I know we agreed that the relationship would end but we also said we would stay in contact. It was his idea not mine. He even said he wishes I could go with him and it is really difficult leaving me. Should I text him or give him space? It's a complicated relationship and I don't know how to navigate from what we had to something else. Advice?
Long distance... friendship?
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He at least should've let you know he arrived safely. Sheesh. I feel like if you really loved someone no amount of distance could keep you from being in contact with them. I would text him just off the fact that you haven't spoken to him since he took off on a plane. That could and should be your opening.0
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