I have been "dating" this girl for about 1 month. We have been out on 8 or so dates and enjoyed each other's company.
She slept over at my place around 4th date, but we didn't have sex. I feel kind of stupid for not trying it I guess, but I wanted to make sure I liked her before getting into that.
Anyways fast forward a few weeks to now. We live 45 min away from each other, so it has been hard to hang out, and she lives with her parents as well.
She kind of backed off a few days ago after talking about where we were going with our relationship.. I guess I didn't give her enough details of my past or I didn't open up well enough.
She told me I give her a "friend vibe" a few days later while talking, and that she would be willing to maybe hang out again and see if something is there?
I guess is it weird for a girl to wait so long to say something like this? I mean I felt like things were moving along well. I guess maybe I am not meant for modern dating world.
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Honestly sometimes there just isn't a spark. You guys obviously get along great but so do most friends. What do you guys do when you hang out? Maybe the next time you meet, you should do something romantic/spontaneous and not something you'd do with your friends. Flirt! Just because you've been on a couple of dates it doesn't mean you should stop flirting it's fun and sets up a "non-friend vibe". Also, maybe you could talk to her see if you guys want the same thing. Maybe she wants a relationship but doesn't want to get serious too quick.0
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