I'm confused.. or maybe I'm not. I don't know. But anyway I've been seeing this guy and so far it's been going okay. We met through a mutual friend. So it's been almost a month since we started I guess seeing each other.
Our friend came over to my crushes house so we can all hang out. Our friend was talking about his birthday this weekend. Our friend invited me out to join them all and I can't wait. But I guess on Saturday our friend has a hot date and he was telling me where it is. Then my crush was like "shhhhhhhhhhh you weren't suppose to tell her" and I asked "why" my crush responded "because I'm going." And I just said "okay."
But why did he have to keep it a secret. I don't care if he goes out, we both have our own lives. But the whole thing being a "secret" is bothering me. I mean I know I shouldn't be jealous and I'm not a jealous girl so this whole thing is throwing me off. I mean we aren't official so it shouldn't matter what he does.
He's been giving me mixed signals, like he tells me we have plans... but then he decides to go without me and I mean i don't mind as long as he tells me instead of not telling me. I don't know if I'm just a rebound to him even though he tells me I'm not. But he did get out of a 2 year relationship in October. And they were engaged but he broke up with her because he wasn't happy.
I mean if he just wants to be single, he should tell me right? Instead of calling me babe and that he misses me and take me out on dates... right?
Hmmmm.. yeah I'm confused. Help?
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avoid this block him, on any social website you are with him. he is a good game player and he is not actually happy from his life. he is searching for the happiness but he can't find it. he is frustrated.
he plays mind games. and it was the mind game to play with you... and make you keep thinking of him.
if you want a girl to think of you ,,, you have to confuse her. with random things and make her think that you are hiding and blah blah blah, well its just a game play , and it won't go long for you, if yo want your self happy and you love to be happy, just breakk all the contacts with him. and find another boy who can hold you not anyone else and someone who dont play mind games and not a playboy0