I am a junior in high school and have a crush on a freshmen. We have hooked up 4 times,(only second base cause she is younger). Ee have been texting almost everyday for 2 months now. But she rarely texts me first, but she doesn't give me one word answers. Lately she seemed less interested in seeing me in school. She doesn't talk much, and doesn't look at me much, and just plays with her jewelry. My friends said she is just nervous cause maybe she likes me. Is she playing hard to get by never snapchating me first anymore? should I text her less often? How often? And how can I get her to like me?
- Give her spaceVote A
- Keep texting herVote B
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Well i can identify with her, i rarely text or snapchat my guy first, i don't like to chase him, it'd look desperate or manly. And i used to look at the guy when he's not seeing but now i do it (but not too much) bc i realize that even though it makes me a little insecure, it's better bc he'll know that i'm interested. But, i do talk pretty much, words just come out and i need to shut up cuz im nervous. There maybe she's the opposite of me, maybe she doesn't talk much because she's afraid of screwing up or because she just doesn't know what to say. Or maybe she's not really interested, if i don't like the guy who i know that he likes me, i don't look at him much or don't really talk to him much. So it's pretty confusing i know. What i recommend you to do is make her think about you more, you know, don't answer her texts right away, we think about things we don't understand, and she won't understand why. Make her get more attached to you, how? text her very often and suddenly stop and she'll miss you, she'll be waiting and it sucks for us but it works, so i've learned done it too and it works. But then act like "nothing happen, i still like you". And be funny or fun, unpredictable, make your life look inviting. Don't do always what's expected, that's boring. Also, compliment her (but not too much) that'll make her smile and think about you more. Don't try too hard, don't pressure yourself and be cool. Best of luck :)0
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