I was about to ask out a cute girl I saw working at the mall today, but right before I said anything about it, the pit in my stomach got too huge and I figured I was too nervous to pull it off, so I wussed out. She was really nice and I was talking to her when she was ringing me up. She may have been flirting with me it's hard for me to tell. She seemed like a shy, geeky sort of girl, which I love. I honestly think I would have had a good shot if I asked, IM kicking myself right now. IM able to talk completely fine, it's just crossing that gap from small talk to asking out that I crumble. IM thinking about going back next week, but I know IM going to be nervous. Girls, if a guy seems really nervous, would that be a turnoff? My self esteem is pretty solid, better than average, I just feel super awkward asking someone out. I overthink it too much.
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Haha i think its cute when you get nervous, it shows you care, or interested i guess you could say- but i think it's adorable! :) & i get super nervous when i talk to guys too (the ones that interest me) & my hands start to shake & my face turns red & my heart races quickly- I don't know if that's attractive or whatever- but I personally don't like how nervous i get, but if a guy gets nervous in front of a girl he likes i think its really cute :)0