so i started dating this guy and he told me i have to stop wearing makeup because it bothers him. now i dont mind not wearing makeup. i don't wear it that often. what i don't like is him just stating: "i want you to stop wearing makeup if you want this to work. makeup bothers me." if a guy asked me nicely if i could just stop wearing makeup, i would be fine with it. i'd consider it and talk to him. the way he said it was more of a command.
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Yep. Red flag. Dump his butt. He's a controlling personality. It starts with the make-up and goes on to be something else. If you stop wearing make-up because he said that's the only way you could work, he will feel victorious and then move onto something else to make you do. He's probably one of those guys who blames the woman for things that go wrong. Sometimes guys like this tend to be abusive. Put your foot down and tell him you don't deal with ultimatums in relationships. Don't let any man control you.0