Or do I give it more time? It's been only 3 weeks and he's already talking about a future with me. We had some heavy conversations of his past trauma... had 6 major arguments already about me feeling he was trying to control my life or me pushing some sort of "button" of his. Without knowing really why. He just said he got grumpy. He also started moving my furniture around and wanting to buy me new furniture when I said I didn't want it. I am feeling uneasy with him. The sex is not that good either. Although it slowly is getting better. He was super aggressive the first time and I wanted him to slow down and he almost didn't stop when I said to. He did, but pushed my legs aside and said "I don't know what you want!". His reaction scared me. Should I be worried about this guy?
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Um... yes! It sounds like he has got some major issues. Major. It's only been 3 weeks, and you guys are already arguing. It also sounds like he is very controlling. It's those one's that you really have to watch and get out early. Plus, the fact that he was aggressive during your first time and almost didn't stop, is a HUGE red flag.
If you do decide to end it with him, please make sure you end it at a public place (like a restaurant or café), and watch your back (I'm not trying to scare you or anything, it's just, I've heard way too many horror stories).
Hope this helps0
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