I have a bestfriend that I have loved for years, he's perfect in fact he was the majority of my firsts. However we fell into just being friends cause we were always there for each other and instead of being friends with benefits we eventually just became friends who fooled around on occassion, well really it turned into me just going down on him. I've watch him date other girls and he always has stories of new conquests but he always comes back to me. He said he sees us as bestfriends and it would be weird to change things. But I want him to see me as more how do I do that?
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You've been friend zoned. The problem is that you're always going to be there when he gets out of a relationship. He knows he can count on you for help.
You need to sit down with him and have a heart to heart conversation with the guy. You need to tell him how you feel. He'll probably be thinking that if he f's up this relationship with you, who can he turn to then? He values you more as a friend than as a relationship prospect. You need to reassure him that if things go south with you; you'll always have a friend. You can also reassure him that you know him more that any other girl out there besides his mother (brownie points for you)😃0