A really confusing situation! Please help?

What should I do or say if a really cool man I respect a lot and is around 20 years older than me tells me that he likes me as a girfriend? And I like him as a succeeded person I pretty much respect! And I don't want to hurt him!


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  • So just be like 'Well, I'm flattered. But I think we're just at too different stages in our lives to be compatible with eachother as anything more than friends'

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    • What she said.

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    • Noo, it's better too be honest with him now instead of leading him on :)

    • Thanks for MHO :)

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What Guys Said 2

  • say you're just friends. holy shit though what does this guy expect.

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    • I'm sooo damn confused I don't know I wonna die..

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    Say bye and leave... Wtf? Your not even 18 yet. He is a f*** pervert.

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    • No.. He isn't :D.. I hope.. but it really sounds like that..

What Girls Said 2

  • Considering your age is under 18, a guy 20 years older than you needs to be looking elsewhere. He's a big boy, if letting him down easy isn't working then tell him flat out you're not interested and he needs to back off.

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  • U shld straight away tell him the truth ! Wot r u waiting for to fuck u and then gonna tell him..

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    • Well I told him that won't led to anything so..

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    • No he doesn't have wife.. and yes that's the bad thing.. We don't know each other very well but he told me such things... I am very surprised and disappointed. Whatever.. I think that he understood me so.. Thank you veery much about the advice!

    • Ur too pretty may be thts y he is getting attracted ;-) well thts good u told him to maintain distance

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