So whether online or in person, I meet guys who seem so self absorbed. I met guy online, he didn't have balls to end it led me on for few weeks then said how he felt. An admitted he runs away from problems.
I thought wow your 27 man up? Another guy who dumped me in 2013 came back out of the woodwork in December 2014 acting like we can be friends and in eachothers lives and go for meal when it ended badly and he got into rebound relationship. I turned it down as I don't want him back.
Then another guy online 29 so I thought maybe he's mature and a gent, but he says just got out of relationship lets see how it goes. I said fine then. Then he said so we can start seeing eachother. I said yeah get to know eachother and not rush anything as like you said you just got out of something.
Then he's like send a pic so I did just of me in a dress. Minutes later got anymore I said no prefer not to send any yet. He said go on. he's a man acting like a teenager over pics?
I do not know when or even if guys ever grow up. I said to him be honest, do you just want sex. He said omg almost like I am chatting rubbish. Then said well you dont want casual, meaning that he does. Then he said so it won't be.
I felt it was all talk. Then cus of the distance he's like shame you don't drive. He said that means I would have to drive to you. He sounded so selfish. I said you don't have to. He then said don't expect to drive around your city for you.
I mean what a line to put me totally off him. Its like saying don't expect me to do anything for you. I said I expect nothing gentlemen don't exist he said night nightxxx. I said you know what lets leave it. He replied cool.
I really do wonder who raised these males. Chivalry is dead and romance is for the fairytale books only. I totally will not put up with men who can not do 50/50 with me.
Most Helpful Guy
There are some of us still out there that do our best. But I'll be honest, we are getting worn down by all the women we meet that take offense to classic gentlemanly behavior. They either think it's antiquated or that we are not treating them as an equal, when in reality, it's just a show of respect.
However, the guys you are referring to are just children. It doesn't sound like they even made an effort in the first place, so why are you worried about them. Just keep looking and don't compromise what you want, for what you can have in the present.1
- Show AllShow Less