So I've never had sex (but I've had boyfriends and we've made out in bed). It's because I never felt that I clicked with any of my exes, and when I didn't want to have sex for a couple of months they all left me, and I was fine with that.
Now I'm dating this guy that I'm really into. I really experienced sparks and fireworks and this is the guy I want to have sex with. But as you can see I'm quite old and I don't want to put any undue pressure on him for making my first time special. I think that I can just write off the blood as period, but I was wondering if there are any tell-tale signs of virgins in bed. Do you have any tips to give, so that he won't notice that I'm a virgin?
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Just tell him. It's important that he knows so that he can go slow and make It more comfortable for you. If you don't tell him he might be more aggressive and as a result you won't really enjoy the experience. It's in both of yours best interests that you are honest with him. he's not going to be turned off, if anything he'll feel special that he's your first.0