Would he have to be super hot? Super successful?
Or is there just no chance even if the guy is a solid "10" ?
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My guy is 7 years older than me... what attracted me to him was his personality, as cliché as that sounds. We met online and starting emailing each other several times a day, talking about our pasts and goals and interests and whatnot. I knew he was older but I guess I found it sexy - he was mature and ready for a serious relationship but also knew how to laugh at himself and treat me well. (A year and a half later, he still does.) It had nothing to do with looks, though I was pleasantly surprised when we first met in person because I found myself insanely attracted to him. I think it's easy to be attracted to a much older man if they have the charm and the looks, but whether or not I'd want to date them would depend on their personality.0