I went on a first date with a nice girl on Wednesday last week. The date went well, and it ended with a friendly hug ( No i didn't go for a kiss). She texted me after to thank me for it which i liked and i decided to send her some roses. She got them this past Friday and she loved them (she even posted it on fb and tagged me on it). we agreed to go to a 2nd date tomorrow. I texted her yesterday to say that she was on my mind and i hope that she was having a nice weekend. She didn't respond. Am i overthinking everything? or maybe she is not into me yet or not at all.
Please be honest. Is she interested?
What Girls Said 1
It is weird she didn't respond.
Wait until tomorrow and send her a text,
"Are we still on?"
If she never answers and fades away I would think she genuinely wasn't interested.
If she does answer and you end up seeing eachother,
You can casually ask her if she received that message you sent her.
Just for future reference.
You've been doing well for far with dating this girl.
Being a perfect gentlemen and impressing her (whether she chooses to equally pursue you or not).
But allow her to send messages to you as well (initiate contact).
If you're constantly texting her first and not giving her to chance to miss or see what you're up to,
She can lose interest.
Why? Because you would be suffocating her.
A lot of people don't like those are seem clingy especially from the beginning.
A little space and a little room isn't so bad.1
What Guys Said 3
I would have personally said that second text was a bit too strong and not the smartest of moves. However she agreed to a second date so she is obviously into you. Just relax, dont worry about it and enjoy date number 2.1
Oh man. Girls are difficult creatures to understand...
Good luck :)1
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