My boyfriend is in college freshman and I'm a highschool junior and I understand that he has things to do like schoolwork, stuff for his family, and work on top of that. I respect that also but I seem to never get to see him at all unless if he's not "busy" which seems to be like every other month. I've been confused by what I honestly should do, I really like him and stuff but I hate how he seems to never have time for me even if he doing something around where I live and he could come over and just say hi or something for like 5 minutes. I don't know what to do, one day, I'm okay with it and hope for the best and the next day, I'm depressed and stressing over this situtation.
- Dump him, you deserve better.Vote A
- You should try to make it work out.Vote B
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You do not have to dump him, but why put your life on hold? Tell him that you understand he is busy and he can't spend as much time with him, so you are going to date other guys. You will still see him when he can, but you can't be expected to sit at home and wait for him to get the time.
Honestly, I think he is just too cowardly to tell you he is having too much fun at school. I teach college, and, unless he is in one of two majors, or at an Ivy League school, he has PLENTY of time for socializing. The freshman year is when most students go a little crazy with socializing.1