So I met this girl in August and we seemed to really hit it off and we started getting closer and we talk to each other like boyfriend and girlfriend calling each other babe and baby. But when I mention dating (which was only 4 times) she always has an excuse. The same excuse. She says she's not ready for a relationship and she said she wants to make herself genuinely happy before making others happy, which I didn't get. And I really like this girl, almost love this girl. But I'm thinking about giving up on her. What should I do? If you have a question about something I didn't mention just ask.
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It might not be an excuse. She's actually correct. She understands that relationships come with drama and doesn't want to deal with that along with all the other things she probably has going on (ex. school). She's a smart one. You shouldn't be thinking about that either, just enjoy her company. Relationships bring up too much stuff, stuff that you probably won't be able to handle right now. Before you know it, you guys go from hitting it off to hitting each other. Just be patient, respect her decision. Its hard to like someone and not be exclusive but thats life.0