I am having issues with this girl who keeps texting my bf. They were friends for 6 years before we dated. It was obvious from the moment we started becoming friends that she liked him as more than a friend. She was very touchy feely with him and she doesn't have a license and she would always make him drive her places. She also always asked him to cover her for dinner and such and she never offered him gas money. She didn't work or anything. Once we started dating almost 4 years ago I said look it is obvious to me and everyone else that she likes. you and she is using you for rides out of respect for our relationship can you please cut back on the Chrissy time and the rides
I just don't think it is OK at all to be some other girl's chauffeur when you are in a serious relationship with someone else and I didn't feel comfortable with him always talking/hanging out with a girl who obvs had a thing for him. He cut back a lot and stopped giving her rides but she continued to blow up his phone all the time and say nasty things about me. Well for a while she backed off but recently she started textinf him saying that she misses him and blah blah blah and saying a bunch of other inappropriate things to a guy who has a gf. She constantly is texting him stupid random things saying like guess what this guy paid my phone bill like news flash he doesn't care. Should I text her telling her to fall back and back off my bf. She supposedly even has a bf so why is she constantly up my man's ass? It bugs me that my bf responds to her.
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After reading your question, as well as your responses to the guy who gave you an insightful opinion, I think your boyfriend should dump you and enjoy his life.
Your boyfriend is a grown man, he has his own reasons for helping out this other woman like he does, and frankly that is his business. Regardless of how you might feel otherwise, you do not own him and are not entitled to one minute more of his time or attention than he is willing to give to you.
If you really want an answer, quite screwing around on a website and confront him with your demands. If he chooses to not meet your demands then dump him and find a guy who is a better match for you. But please, don't come looking for opinions from others you aren't actually interested listening to.0
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